It really does depend how we define "sexual misconduct".

If me spending ten seconds more than I should watching my friend undress counts as "sexual misconduct", then I really don't think you're right. I would say most men have probably behaved in a way that could be deemed "sexual misconduct", by this measure.

But if we're using that term to refer to things that people should genuinely be ashamed of, well then you probably are right.

The problem is that the definition of "sexual misconduct" is shifting to include the likes of huggy bear and pervs like me who should respectfully look away sooner.