I just don't really enjoy casual sex. I mean I do at the time, but then I start to think this would be much nicer if I actually liked you as a person, then start feeling guilty for feeling like that. idk, I guess my problem is I last had casual sex with a girl who wanted to move to fucking Cornwall with me. I'd just broken up with someone I loved and was going to Cornwall to sort my head out, I didn't want her coming along. With her kid. jfc. Makes me feel guilty, women are rarely up for just a shag, even if they suggest they are. And I'm not sure I'm up for just a shag anymore either. More hassle than it's worth.