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Before you get into this whole post, I have a request.
It's daunting to try to answer the 20 questions you asked, let alone try to reply to all the other points.
I'll do my best to answer the questions, but it'd help the flow of the conversation if you could maybe pick the one biggest thing to unravel from the litany of things I said that bother you. I get that we don't agree on much, and that's fine. It'd just help if we took on one issue at a time to try to come to understand each other, rather than mashing everything into every conversation.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Would you say that if 100% of the accusations being fuzzy, uncorrorborated and/or actively refuted, and all contained within circumstances of underage drink that constitutes a "persistent pattern of sexual assault"?
No. Either the number of claims is small and it's not a pattern and I don't care, or the number of claims is large and it'd be foolish to claim that all of them are lies.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Have you ever been to couples therapy?
No.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Why is it hard to believe she's mistaken?
For the reasons I've stated.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Why are those four people less believable than she is? is it more plausible that she's mistaken, or that all four of those people are lying?
None of them is any more believable than the others, and what I see is 5 believable stories. I'm not picking sides because 4 of them are similar. Not yet.
Humans lie for all sorts of reasons, and often say untrue things which they believe, despite the white-washing of memory that compels that belief.
Humans lying doesn't bother me. I don't care whom lied about what. I care if there's a rapist on SCOTUS.
I assert that we don't need to evaluate the veracity of any individual claims when it comes to crimes of sexual nature. What turns someone on is not something that changes throughout their life. If it's women, it's women. If it's men, it's men. If it's violence, it's violence. Etc.
That's my hypothesis.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Really? It doesn't matter that this guy has worked honorably at the highest levels of public service? That means nothing to you?
I don't even know how to answer this.
It means that he's earned the respect of an independent body to verify the claims, nothing more. People whom are otherwise good do bad things all the time. It is perfectly common for someone to live a double-life to cover up their guilt. Dahmer's neighbor's called him a "quiet man who kept to himself."
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Do you at least acknowledge the suspicious timing of all this??
How could there be "a flood of claims" just waiting to be made....but not one of them surfaced before now?
The timing is the opposite of suspicious.
Imagine you were raped, and you reacted in all the common ways people react. Shame, self-blame, depression, etc.
Then you just want to separate yourself from that person, that place, and get on with your life in denial of the thing that happened to you... by them.
Until you see them about to be appointed to a positon of great power and authority, with impact on millions of people's lives...
Then you realize that you have to face your fear, your shame, your depression, and man-up to face whatever comes in order to prevent this person from enacting their beliefs on a scale which makes what happened to you a detail.
How? See above.
If you've never been a victim of violence, then don't even pretend you understand what they've dealt with. If you have, then try to understand that other people are seriously traumatized by that kind of thing and if you weren't, then you are the exception to the rule, not them.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Source?
Source?
lol. It's the Cosby thing. If you can't find your own sources on that, then don't expect me to waste my own time.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
When would you say that the hearing has served its purpose?
As I said, when it has determined his character and whether or not he's a good fit for a lifetime appointment to the SCOTUS.
The exact details of that are up to the committee and/or the laws which address this process, since the committee is Congress.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Why can't the thing that comes to light be a sham? What is sham-like about the hearing?
I've repeatedly said that it can.
Oh. Everything about the hearing is a sham. I don't think 1 letter of the intent of the constitution is playing out in this hearing or in the SCOTUS appt. hearings I've seen in my lifetime.
This one is no different.
 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Why do you deny that we have all the facts.
'Cause there is no other possible explanation of the universe.
Why do you assert that you know everything?
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