btw they didnt land on anything "gender neutral" or "abortion is okay". they didn't hold up the conservative position on abortion, that it is always baby murder (it kinda is), but they do hold up the idea that it shouldn't be done.
the grandkid isn't gender confused. he just dresses fancy. it's sorta like how things used to be. boys or girls that defy standards has always been a thing. it's only recently that social justice barbarian know-nothings have conflated that with trans soup du jour