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 Originally Posted by hartbraker
So how much longer before I should ask her if she wants to meet? How do I find out what to do if she does end up agreeing to meet with me. How will I know when it's okay to touch her? What if she wants me to kiss her??? Do I have to pay for her? I'm in college so I don't have a lot of money.
Dude. You're seriously over-thinking this. If you want to call her, then fucking call her. There's no time limit. Avoid all that bullshit game playing. If she doesn't want to talk to you, well, then that relationship was doomed already.
You're at a university? Why waste your time online dating? Just hang out anywhere. Join clubs that interest you. Go to parties. Talk to people. Talk about whatever interests you. If they don't like it, well then you just saved yourself a lot of heartache down the road.
Seriously... you're asking these questions to us? You should be asking her. What are you afraid of? She'll judge you? Again... if she does, then she doesn't get you. Find someone who does.
As for paying for the date. That goes without saying. Be creative. You have so much more to offer than your wallet. Sitting in a park and talking is a great date, and it's free.
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