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CHRISTMAS GIFTS RANT
i guess i am generally too happy a person. i just dont find a lot of stuff to bitch about because i dont go looking for them.
sure, there is the asshole that cuts me off in traffic...oh well. the fat people at the beach making me sick by wearing two-piece bathing suits (god forbid the DUDE wearing the speedo)...oh well. sports and all the corruption that goes with that...oh well. etc etc etc
i just dont waste the energy bitching about that stuff, as i cant do much about it.
however, something came up this morning that makes me THANKFUL, and its this i will choose to bitch about since it fired me up.
my sister-in-law and her husband make GOOD money with their jobs. they deserve every penny. they put in the work, and deserve to get paid...just like the rest of us. but...........THEY SPOIL THEIR KIDS ROTTEN!!
there is NO discipline in that house. none. those kids get 5 or 6 "warnings" before they get sent to their rooms for about 5 minutes. BIG-FUCKING-DEAL! that kid didnt learn shit. the kids show NO respect for adults. they kick them, tell them "no," defy directions, and can barely get along with each other. and, I BLAME THE PARENTS.
yes, we all have our "issues," and shouldnt judge someone before walking in their shoes. you just never really know what other people are dealing with (special needs, stressful jobs, etc). but, c'mon. get a grip on your children, especially at this time of year when family is around constantly.
i cant expect much for the future from these kids, and its the PARENT'S FAULT. sure, the kids may have good jobs, as they may very well follow the example set, but there is a better than 50% chance that they will be "piece of shit" people, too. they will raise children just like they were raised...who will raise children like THEY were raised, etc, etc. the worst part of this is that it multiplies exponentially.
these people live like slobs. they havent washed their bedding in 2 months. there are so many toys (all bought by the parents) littering the hallway and bedrooms that the kids can hardly get in their beds without stepping on something. the parents claim "there's no time to clean because we are never home." well, who's friggin fault is that? if your kids werent playing hockey, soccer, ballet, tap, pom-pon, and basketball...ALL AT THE SAME TIME...maybe you would be home to have dinner, or bathe, or do some laundry.
and, not only do they have a PS2...and X-box, they are now adding a Wii for the oldest son (all the game systems along with GameBoy and another portable are his). i watch them go to a restaurant and interrupt the parents for "game money," and the dollars just literally fall out of the parent's pockets like leaves from a tree.
the worst part of all of this is: they take advantage of my Mother-in-law by inviting her over to the house to "watch the kids" while they disappear to the grocery store or do other routine shopping. meanwhile, my M-I-L gets so disgusted with the housing conditions, she spends HOURS cleaning the house. bathrooms, floors, laundry...all of it. she was over there for 9 hours last weekend alone. she is 68 years old, and cant say "no." (another rant for another day, as she is the enabler)
but, I BLAME THE PARENTS for most things wrong with children and young adults these days.
discipline your children consistently, guide them between right, wrong, and ethical. be there for them. take your eyes off the god-damned dollar long enough to realize these children need GUIDANCE and ROLE-MODELS or else they will seek them elsewhere. and, elsewhere is usually the wrong place.
and, remember, THESE KIDS WILL PASS ON WHAT THEY LEARN TO THEIR KIDS, TOO. they are watching you, and will repeat what they saw. and, if left to continue down the path it's on...
...THIS WILL BE THE DOWNFALL OF THE UNITED STATES (the piece of shit children WE raised) if you are a parent, or are going to be one someday, bear this in mind. and, put your focus back where it should be so you dont propagate the above mentioned scenario, as it is truly a shameful one. and it will be YOUR fault. YOU can stop this vicious cycle, if you recognize it, and DECIDE you've had enough, too.
i guess i'm just THANKFUL it hasnt ruined our country...yet.
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