You've been duped by postmodern society into believing that you could be happy if you were just insulated and protected from all of the oppressive forces in the world. Get woke.
When on one hand you say that and on the other you agree with me on every single definition and example of happiness, it makes it pretty frustrating to have a discussion. Do you have Tourette's?
Our brains have just one scale, and we resize our experiences to fit.