Totally understand what you're saying about not knowing who to listen to, who's right, who's wrong, etc. But you should never take anyone's opinion on a poker forum as fact anyway. There's too many variables. That's why there's always more than 1 reply to a hand. Anyway, do your own investigating and experimenting from the replies here to see what works for you. No one will give you a cookie cutter answer because there's no real cookie cutter questions. Try to learn the "why" instead of looking for the "how" and you'll be fine. GL.