So, I crush my BF in most games...

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J, do you find all the casual homophobic remarks that exist both on this forum and elsewhere offensive? Ie calling crap stuff gay etc, so not homophobia that is intended to offend, but the more casual inconsiderate homophobia.

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Tanes flipped me, turns out I like 'em big(ish)

Fuck, im confused now. I thought you were just playing with bf meaning both best friend and boyfriend. Big IS nice though...

J, do you find all the casual homophobic remarks that exist both on this forum and elsewhere offensive? Ie calling crap stuff gay etc, so not homophobia that is intended to offend, but the more casual inconsiderate homophobia.

It depends. Im a big "intent" guy, and have called people gay and faggots for forever. Its just part of 90s culture, ya know? I mean, you cant play a video game without being called a faggot...but no one knows youre actually gay in the real lifes. So its typically harmless. Louis CK has an accurate skit imo regarding faggot != gay too, and I agree pretty strongly.

So usually, no. I mean, if someone gets into an argument with me and those words come out...I'll probably associate them with fagbashing...but its all in the context. The two comments itt, I thought were just jokes. I didnt laugh, but i wasnt offended either.