I smoke everyday and my mrs doesn't know. I hate it, I sneak around, find excuses to go out at the weekend, smoke all day at work. I have a routine at the end of each work day involving soap, deoderant & gum. It's the only lie I tell. I feel guilty about it but I like smoking so I do it anyway. I plan to quit before I'm 30. I wish I never told her I quit, but she was bitching at me so I said it to keep her quiet, but now it's a big thing as I've been lying about it for about a year. That's what would be the issue, the lying more than anything else.