i think in reality you should get real mad and if u choose "beat your wife" i mean its kinda her fault anyway for letting you play in the first place. but in all honestly if u go in with the best hand and you get sucked out on then you just need to calm down and realize that if u play the hand the same way your going to most likely win it and not be suckedf out on.....live and let live.......like jym said to me if ur 60 percent to win ur only gonna win 60 percent of the time