First hand with the 10s? That was stupid...

OK...so you've got a 4 as a kicker. WHO FRIGGIN' CARES? Chances are, you're not going to be using that 4 as a kicker; you'll be using the river as your kicker, or perhaps it will pair the board and your kicker won't matter! Either way, you should call that bet.

And that's ASSUMING the other guy has a 10. With that minimum reraise, he probably put you on A and a good kicker testing to see where he was at...so he reraised you right back!

Other one...that sucks. I'm sorry. That would ahve been a decent fold.