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 Originally Posted by BankItDrew
 Originally Posted by will641
 Originally Posted by BankItDrew
 Originally Posted by chardrian
when the 4 kids in my family turned 18 we were not allowed to live at home anymore.
I like this idea, I'm obviously a late bloomer.
i heard somewhere that our generation in general are much later bloomers to get their life on track and move out, statistically speaking.
This is the same thing I've heard. The best theory out there is that the generation before us worked their asses off because they wanted more for their children compared to what they themselves had. Now, our generation doesn't feel the need to produce for themselves, because the household income is high enough to sustain a family for a longer time. Or something along those lines...
I wish I could go back in time like John Titor and observe myself as a child, along with how I was taught by my parents. I think it'd be very interesting to witness mistakes or benefits during my developmental process.
Parents don't do their kids any favors by letting them slip by this way. Kids never grow up. If I were your brother, I'd be embarrassed. It's like going through life wearing a diaper and sucking on a pacifier.
As far as your dealing with your brother, think sink or swim. It's obv you will never have much of a positive influence on him no matter how much you try, unless some fundamental dynamics change. Fold and wait for a better hand.
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