poker is a game of placing wagers. If you place them with the correct odds, you will win long term. That is all.
What you
don't seem to understand is that when you make one of your 'good player' moves to
steal a pot, you are still using odds to make this play. Example:
You
call a
raise from the BB with XX. The raiser is aggresive and bets almost any
flop, but he was seen to
check once when he flopped a
monster.
The pot is 500 chips.
The
flop comes AA3r. You
check. Raiser bets 500. You feel this is continue bet and you can pick up the pot with a
raise. Pot now contains 1000. If you feel there is a 0 percent chance that opp will
call if you re
raise, clearly the play is to
raise, and the amount of the
raise is irrelevant. The
raise will always show a profit.
But let's make it more real. Say you feel there is a 50% chance opp will not
call a
raise. The other 50%, he calls or raises and you lose the pot.
So if you bet 500, 50 % of the time you win 1000. 50 % you lose 500. Every two bets you make 500 chips.
Shift to 33 % win, 67 % lose, and the play evens out. You can still make it, but long term it's
break even.
Clearly you can shift the numbers, hands, situations all day. But in the end, when you say you 'know your opponent' what you're really saying is you know the odds he has hands XYZ, the odds your hand will beat those hand, the odds you/he will
improve, the odds he will
fold those hands, etc. That is both based on the probability of opp holding hands in general (for example, 1/221 he'll have
AA) and more specifically based on how you have seen opp play previously.
I can't prove to you your knowledge of these situations doesn't give you a better
edge than the
AA situation you describe. I'll just
tell you that I firmly believe you will not find one winning player who would
pass up that
spot. Eventually, if you stick with it, you'll figure out why.
I highly suggest reading Theory of Poker.