I explained this daven in IRC, but I'd kinda want to make it clear to everyone else too lol. I didn't bring her to my place on the first date expecting/wanting sex. I brought her there because there really wasn't anything that sounded good playing in the movies, we'd have a better chance at getting to talk/know each other instead of a movie theater, plus she gets to see me where I'm comfortable, how I live, etc. Kind of gives her a glimpse into what kind of person I am and honestly it helps me relax since I'm in my own house which lets me have a better time and I can loosen up more than if I was at her place or something.