The QQ hand is a pretty horrible spot and I could argue a case either way. Against some players I'm drooling, against others it's an easy fold. If I thought the guy was an idiot, I'm calling him. But you look A LOT like QQ+ here and villain is expecting you to call. Folding looks good here. But this isn't always a fold. It really does depend on the villain.

The KQ hand, we should raise the 2c bet. SB is the guy who 3bet, and he checked. BB probably has a draw. Our hand is in decent shape here, and there's value. I think you're giving the 3bet too much credit. If this is rare, fair enough, but keep an eye on these kind of players to see how often they are doing it.