Regarding flop play :

I c/r in these spots because I'd rather bloat the pot on the flop rather than on an ugly turn. Not sure if that makes sense.

I think the ratio of the flop being bet - thus allowing me to c/r vs. the ratio of my lead being raised is higher enough in the favor of the former making it a more consistently effective play. I also think bet/4-bet looks stronger than a c/raise and I don't want him folding an overpair whereas he might shove over my c/raise a larger amount of the time than calling my c/raise. Does this seem logical? I'm definitely looking way too deep into this for 100 NL but still this hand has vexed me all night.....