i very rarely catch anything on the flop with AKs it seems.

So if i do whats the best strategy, say i get an A or a K and i have high pair, should i bet right away, what if someone has a set or two pair...

the other thing that's so frustrating is i just dont know what people have, many times i lose because there's large bets and i fold because i dont think my hand holds up against such big raises. thus i never see what they have (and i try to ask but then everybody gets so pissed off and yells)