Yeah wtf surely a 30/15 hits this flop a ton here? Axs , AJ, (A9), AQ maybe poss even AK if he is shit at 3betting... Then you add in QT/T8 and I would have though that a bet flop isn't even close...?

Also how do you get that much value? He's not that aggro (sample size though) and if he's missed the flop completely why would he want to bet the turn OOP when you could easily have a hand like QQ?

As for the psychology... I find myself being results orientated about some of the more, shall we say bold and aggressive aspects of my play. If I do something like float a flop and raise a weak turn bet with air, I tend to think it was good if it worked and spewy if it didn't. As you're finding, it's only when you step back and think about it that you work your thinking is flawed... Something else I need to work on atm...