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Originally Posted by salsa4ever
Originally Posted by givememyleg
find someone you love or something
do you think it means i don't love someone, if I think it's totally unacceptable if they let themselves become sexually unattractive to me?
not necessarily, no. as men it is normal, and almost a requirement, that we have an attractive spouse. now of course attractive is subjective, whatever floats your boat. i admit as well that i would not be able to begin to date someone that i wasn't psychically attracted to..
however, like someone else mentioned, not wanting to have kids because you're afraid it might make your wife put on a few sounded kinda shallow. if you don't want kids, that's your thing... some people just don't want to have them. but if you really do want a family someday, and are avoid it just because of this, you should probably try to see through it. and after all, not all women get big after pregnancy. the whole working out, or perhaps dancing (!), together thing is a great idea.
didn't mean to sound so rude, i you and your posts. guess what i was trying to say is that right now i am very very attracted to my significant other.. and even if she were to gain weight, there is no way i would ever leave her, because i love her so much. would i prefer her to stay skinny? of course. do i hope she stays fit/in shape? of course. would i consider leaving her if she did gain weight? never.
i'm actually starting to hit that age where my metabolism is wearing off and i'm getting kinda lazy about things... so i'm thinking about me and her starting a workout plan, sounds +ev to me.
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