Again, this isn't black or white. If I kidnapped you and your brother, held a gun to your head, told you that I was going to either kill you or him but I will allow you to choose, if after you chose yourself and I killed you, could I tell your brother that you wanted to die?
Of the multitude of ways you could have chosen to draw the analogy, this is the one you chose. nh sir.

Especially marvel at the choice of the word "I".