Let me just put my point in another way. It seems like what your saying that you and Jim are creating an outcome that just wastes both of your time. Ultimately, if you decide to live by your value that not stealing is best for everyone, and you don't steal, I think your doing your job to create the reality you want. Jim, if he steals from you, isn't creating that reality. He is creating a world where time is wasted stopping other people from stealing from him.