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 Originally Posted by Poopadoop
I'm just saying if they didn't tell you they were gay you might be in for a shock. So telling you they're gay is a courtesy to you. I for one would prefer they say that because I'd rather not be the guy coming over a ridge and seeing two guys going at it, because I find that disgusting. If that makes me homophobic, fine, but at least they're being up front about it so I can't complain.
So if you joined up with an outdoor group on Meetup.com, went out for a hike, came over a ridge, and saw two straight people going at it......that's ok?
This is kind of my point. The only gay thing about gay people is the gay stuff they do in private with other gays. Other than that, they're just regular people. This is why I have a problem with the phrase "identify as gay". Unless you're some kind of workaholic porn star, your life is probably a lot more than what kind of sex you have. So why is your sexual preference the defining feature of your "identity"
If they wanna hold hands, or sneak off into the woods for a smooch session, why should that bother anyone? Why does one need to be warned?
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