How do you define utility though? Most classical utilitarianists would say that the concept of utility refers to some sense of pleasure or happiness which doesnt always translate to a sense of frugality. Now, Im not trying to be a huge nit by questioning your use of the term utilitarianism, but Im moreso doing it to make a point/ask a question.

If spending in this manner actively _makes_ you happy [not just keeps you content], then keep doing that. However, it seems like you have fallen into the exactly opposite trap of many of the wealthy; you save money, just for the sake of saving it.

Just let loose a little bit next time you go to the bar. Instead of chugging 5 o'clock in the parking lot, go and get your friends a round of drinks in the bar and then have some yourself. Worry about having fun first, and money second. Im obviously not saying to spend more than you can afford, but just try being a little more care free. Even if you dont think itll make a difference, I bet you will be happier [not saying you arent happy now] after making that change and your "utility" will increase.

And yes, I am a huge nit for making a long post in response to this.

Cliffs:
Quote Originally Posted by a500lbgorilla
Collecting wealth so that money is not a worry is great and all, but in collecting the wealth by cutting every corner, you're kind of defeating the purpose.
Quote Originally Posted by Fnord
You clearly need to drop a bunch of the money at the nudie bar.
+ some stuff about utilitarianism