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 Originally Posted by gabe
sexuality is such a weird thing to analyze since the only thing you have to go off of is your own experience. it's hard to understand how people are naturally because you can't isolate people's natural behaviors from those behaviors influenced by social pressures.
like wuf said, chris ryan wrote some good stuff on the subject of human sexuality. ive only read 'sex at dawn' but it was very thought provoking and is more focused on "straight" sexuality in culture. it will definitely make anyone considering settling down with 1 partner think differently.
im on the gay side of the spectrum but some days i feel gayer/straighter than others. as far as labeling it... like sweet brown said aint nobody got time fo dat!
from a couple nights ago at the bar, this 40+ y/o woman was hitting on me
her: "so are you here waiting on your girlfriend?"
me:"no"
her:"so you dont have a girlfriend?"
me: lol "no... i dont date girls"
she considers this for 10 seconds......"so.......... youre a playa?"
So I take it you'd recommend Sex At Dawn? I was listening to NPR recently and there was this author on talking about his book on male sexuality. The book is titled Why Men Fake It. I think I may go grab a copy, as I've been wanting something to read, and I've never really done much study on sexuality aside from random pondering and Wiki time sinking.
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