Something I should say more often

[CoccoBill]

Try "imagine you have a child, and someone else's child has died after being bullied for being ginger, and you turn up at the funeral pretending to share the grief of the mother who has lost her child because your child is ginger too".

Wait what. Pretending? You mean other black parents are pretending when they show up grieving for other parents' dead black kids? Or that all white people supporting them are pretending? Maybe you should try rephrasing or elaborating.