Well it's not genocide until it's proven. Kidnapping 7 million children seems pointless, and a massive use of resources, so I find that somewhat hard to believe.

But yes there is certainly a massive dose of Russian hypocrisy in their rhetoric.

As for bombing civilian infrastructure, that's going to depend on the circumstances. Let's assume we have a school being used as a makeshift barracks. That makes it a legitimate target. Not saying that's what's happened, but it has to be considered.