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 Originally Posted by kingnat
This is definitely a finishing move, and, depending on the girl, orgasms can be intense and happen very fast. Don't go straight to this, or it might turn a girl off for being too much. Again, it depends on the girl.
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Yeah, honestly the more warmup there is and the longer it is drawn out, the better it is for them. It's the same principle as for a blowjob, its nice to have a turbo blowjob just to pop one off and be done with it, but its nicer to have a 5-10 minute drawn out thing. For women, this is amplified because it simply takes them longer to be fully acclimated to direct stimulation. Sometimes even when you take care to draw it out, you still end up stimulating them too quickly and they either cum poorly or not at all and its kind of over with at this point. Hard to fix once you've screwed it up.
As far as technique, I like to mix it up a good bit from event to event just to keep variety, but one main theme is that I start out with a single indirect form of stimulation and add layers of stimulation on top of that. For example, you can suck on the vulva area (layer one, mostly indirect) with direct flicking of the tongue to the clit (layer two) like in kingnat's technique. But you can take that same technique and just gently rock your head up and down and now you've got three layers. Or you can even do all of those things + hum and you've got four. And you can have fun with rhythms as well, doing one thing at at one pace and another thing at half that pace. I think it's pretty important that the tempo be pretty consistent though, or ever increasing at a slight pace.
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