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01-26-2018 04:26 PM
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01-26-2018 04:30 PM
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01-26-2018 04:38 PM
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Well if he's the type to escalate to lacing your lunch with ebola, you're probably right. In that case it becomes a bit more tricky. | |
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01-26-2018 04:41 PM
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I have been successful with a third option, but it's something I'm good at doing and I always dislike it when somebody says "here's what I would do" so I didn't want to do that. The third option is to change the frame with the bully. Befriend the bully, give him reason to like you and respect you, make him feel like you like him and respect him. Then you can impart on him that you don't want to be pranked like that. Unless his IQ is lower than you think BStand's is, he'd usually listen. |
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01-26-2018 05:03 PM
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I agree more or less. The only caveat would be that the third option can be time-consuming and/or soul-destroying. But if you are dealing with a bully for whom standing up for yourself only gets you beat up , then yeah schmoozing them can be an optimal strategy. In my experience standing up generally has some meta-game advantage in that other bullies know not to play you the same way. | |
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01-26-2018 05:05 PM
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01-26-2018 05:08 PM
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01-26-2018 05:28 PM
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01-26-2018 05:29 PM
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01-26-2018 05:30 PM
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