FWIW, I talked to my gal about this conversation and she doesn't even think it's women who have the most butthurt voices in the conversation. She thinks is a lot of men getting all white-knighty about a non-issue that women don't care about. She thinks it's more about the male patriarchy telling women what a woman is and how women should present themselves in society.

She doesn't think it's about women feeling upset or bothered by people who see themselves as women doing woman things.