Quote Originally Posted by Hawk View Post
I'm the same. I usually get heat about it when the wife is complaining about something and I can't keep my mouth shut about seeing the other side of the issue when I should clearly "be on her side"
+1 This is something rational people (aka men) do.

Telling the woman anything at all positive about the other side makes her think you are against her 100%. Even if it's something small like "have you considered that they thought...".