strip club in Orlando is called Rachel's and is mehh, multiple one's in Tampa but the one Deanglow mentions is probably Mons Venus. Hard Rock in Tampa is pretty good as it is fairly new. As for amusement/theme parks if you like Roller Coasters then Universal Studios in Orlando and Busch Gardens in Tampa have the best ones.
I lived in the Orlando area for about 5 years and traveled to Tampa pretty frequently so if you want more info feel free to pm me.