Dude, If your girlfreind left after all this happened, Fuck her she was only in it for the benifits. If she left before, Get laid, your mojo depends on it. It'll get better, you know it will. this is variance. Dude your a poker playing salsa dancer with a smokin' amount of life experience. Use this time to get shit done. Hit some casino bonuses, Do some work around the house, get a massage ( the happy ending kind ) and play some poker. Spend a few bucks, have some Xmas turkey and in the new year, drop another hammer.

GL and hope it works out. FTR is here for ya.