I told my girlfriend what's up, and she..

[Rondavu]

If you want fire in a relationship, then you should expect to engage in subtle psychological foreplay. The trap most people fall into is automatically casting jealousy into something negative and wrong. Jealousy can taste good, if cooked right. Only extreme forms of jealousy are unhealthy.

For psychological warfare against women in order to get laid multiple times and become a player, look no farther than the lay guide. Turns relationships into a game. Most pertinent to the subject, check the "Handling the girls" section for ways to keep women (or a single woman...) interested in you and faithful to you. It's a good, classic chauvinistic male read that exploits a woman's interest and hunger for attention as well as her sense of competition.

That said, I'm in a committed, faithful HEALTHY relationship now so I don't play that game any more.

Healthy is subjective. If you don't do things to spark each other, in a few years you'll find yourself fat and asleep in an easychair with a TV guide over your junk.

You're talking about games. I'm talking about keeping your partner on their toes. You can be faithful, healthy, and in demand. It's possible.