Gayness is not a choice. AND gayness isn't genetic. However, it IS innate.

Basically your sexual orientation is one of the many things that is decided during your early childhood personality development. There's definitely an element of randomness there though. Its definitely a mental thing, but it isn't something people choose to do.

BTW theres nothing wrong with finding homosexuality disgusting.

Obviously since im straight I think its pretty disgusting for a man to have sex with another man. THATS WHY IM STRAIGHT. OK? I don't have to find homosexuality appealing because IM NOT GAY.

However, there is something VERY wrong with finding homosexuals disgusting or hating them.

Also the argument of "all the gay people I know are like normal people when they aren't in their bedroom" holds very little water. There is a percentage of gay people, and it is very significant, who are queeny and very annoying and they are just adhering to the queen stereotype to be different from everyone else. ITS OK TO FIND THESE PEOPLE ANNOYING AND OBNOXIOUS.

I just think that people need to more clearly define their reasons for hatred and intolerance. The fact that he sucks cock is a poor reason. The fact that he's obnoxious is a perfectly good reason to dislike anyone.