dwarfman trolling spoon's "might not be around..."

Btw, what you are saying about your gf may well be true, and I wish her all the best.

But this has no place on an Internet forum and for that reason I'd love to know your motivation for making an updating this post.

There are a handful of people from FTR that have interacted with Michelle on some level and know a bit about her health problems, so it's easier to update everyone at one time.

This is a lie. What's the real reason? Be honest.

Again, I'm not trying to devalue the situation you and Michelle find yourself in, I do truly empathize and wish you both a good future. But I wish you'd just be honest.