Dude. Realising your fiancee wasn't right just before you actually married her is like winning the fucking lottery. Just imagine how much Shit you'd go through either living your life with the wrong women or bailing out in say 10yrs time. Divorce solicitors ain't cheap, neither are maintenance payments.

You may well look back on 2013 as the luckiest year of your life.

Although I'm guessing by your tone you regret ditching the fiancee, but if you fell for someone else once I can't imagine you would have lasted too long.