You need to make more plays in space. You play to win the game. I can't teach you speed, but maybe you can learn it on one of those training websites. You need to be one of those guys that brings his lunchpail to to the poker table every day for lunch. Focus on winning more with suited connectors, unsuited connectors, pairs, suited non-connectors and unsuited non-connectors. Don't worry about any other hands. You can't control what the other hands do.