and heres another thing. I realised that I MIXED UP all the positions after reading:

http://www.flopturnriver.com/start_basics.html

damn, I can't even remember what exactly happened. lets see.

LW(me): on BB (about 800 left) hole cards: Ad Qd
SF: UDG 1(about 1080 left)
RC: UDG2 (about 2400 left)
KH: MP with the button (about 400 left)
JG: MP1, out - no chips left
JX: SB (about 120 chips left)

I don't think I even raised that much preflop.
SB posts 25
BB posts 50
UDG1 calls (we're all newbie here, I didnt even realise all he did was a call)
UDG2 calls
MP folds
SB folds
BB raises 120 ... so thats 170 counting the BB
UDG1 calls
UDG2 calls

Flop: 8d 6c 4d

UDG1 checks
UDG2 goes ALL-IN
BB folds
UDG1 folds
UDG2 shows a pair 8.

I just realised ... I was suppose to start out the bet before UDG1 aye???
ahhhh!!! the positions are all mixed up, I just realised that most of the times, players were ACTING OUT OF TURNS!!!! If it was a real casino game, they would have been penalized or at least the dealer would have noticed and told everyone. But since it was a home game, nobody noticed.
I think that contributed ALOT to my poor play.

If I would have gone first, I would have opened up with a moderate bet, something like 100. Damn it.