This is just a nasty situation of hitting a set on a suited flop, with about 35% to fill up by the river, no-ones gonna fold that if theyre a good player... unless your stacks are over 200bigblinds I guess. So, get ya stack in, I may just Flat call at the flop to try and get UTG along for the ride aswell to help build the pot and help your pot-odds for *if* EMP has flopped flush.