I'm glad that you've put the effort into making this post, and it shows you're thinking about your game and processed it to the point of being able to write it down. This is a good news.

The bad news is your post contains some of the worst advice I've ever seen. The last 4 observations are fine - good common sense. As is the first.

TPTK is the holding that puts food on your table. Just don't play it as if it's the nuts. Control the pot, make reads, make laydowns where appropriate but make pot-odds calls where appropriate also. Top 2 pair is a hand you play with just about no fear. Play it fast, and generally if they got bottom set, that's just too bad.

Overpairs again: see above

Trust your reads - true. Please read HOH1. I trust the others have taken apart your regret at folding QQQ on an AQx board. You didn't lay it down because consciously or not, you knew you couldn't lay middle set on a rainbow flop.

Consider pot odds too. If your read is you're probably beat but it's a $10 push into a $90 pot, well you have to call.

The hand where you got bet-raise-reraise with AA and there's still more than a stack to lose, well you probably did the right thing.

trust your reads also occurs on the other end of the scale. Just had a hand where it was checked to the button who made a <50% pot bet and the SB called. In BB with complete trash I raised pot, based on a read that button was on a steal and BB called with something like a gutshot or bottom pair based on pot odds. Example of the squeeze play post flop. I took the pot down. Another hand I had AK and the flop was QT7 and I cont bet out of position and he raised. I read that he was trying to steal or 'test me out' with a marginal holding and I pushed it in hoping he'd fold and thinking I might have 10 outs if he didn't. He called with 89 and my hand held up.

Finally, your post is tantamount to saying "don't do anything without the nuts". Well, you can do that, but meanwhile I'm taking the fishies' money with TPTK against their TPNK.

Good luck and keep learning