Quote Originally Posted by Monty3038
I have caught myself often in this 'Show Me' mode. Now sometimes i catch a string where the guy was bluffing and I take the pot down but more often than not I am slammed by a big pair or something that clobbers me, thinking villian is bluffing.

I'm having a hard time though right now with telling if I am ahead or not... even when ahead and know it I seem to be getting burned... I am at work so I don't have the history, but last night is a good example...

playing .02/.05 on Stars, on the button I am dealth TT. I see one limp ahead, raise to 5xBB, SB/BB both fold, get called by UTG limper. Now I put him on a pair, possibly suited Ace to call, so i think his range is ATs+, any pair, KQ possibly. I believe he is thinking I'm stealing, so he is calling. Flop comes 7 4 and I think 3 rainbow. He checks it, I bet 1/2 pot and he pauses then calls. So... here I'm a little lost. Turn comes as a 9 and we now have two hearts on the board... so I figure the flush draw is a possibility now...

I bet 1/2 pot and he insta-calls. What? What could he have... was he slow playing a big pair? I grow very hesitant at that point... river comes and is a Jack of clubs. So no flush... He bets pot. What? Was he slow playing something big? I think he is trying to shove me off it and I call... of course... he was sitting on a A-J of diamonds... making his jacks good.

Sorry for the long post that might not apply too much, but I'm trying to learn from these posts and I think they are valuable... my point was that 'show me' is not the attitude to have. When you are fairly sure you are beat, you have to get out of the hand. I struggle with this and have lost at least 4 buy ins this week to it.
I'm way rusty so take it for what it worth, but when we have an over pair on this flop we have to be ahead of villian's range here, don't we? I probably bet pot on this flop against what is most likely a passive player....give him bad odds to call with his overs or take down the pot against his missed set.

Sorry for going off OP's topic...but in this case if we only make small bets, aren't we asking for trouble?