they way I see it, Social1 has a valid point.

I read all new posts daily and am always taking in new information, a lot of stuff I just dont grasp , sometimes when Im at the table , i get a eureka!! moment and I marry up a subtle happening at the table with something I have read at FTR.

So Social1' s message is clear, keep openminded and dont be afraid to venture your own ideas.And I am very much an absolute beginner.