Suppose I tell the world that you're a dumbass because you don't know that KK beats T9 on a board of T9A2A. You might lash at me because of that.

Now suppose instead that you get all in with T9 against KK on a board of T9A, but the turn comes a 2 and the river comes an A. Would you lash out when the pot is given to your opponent instead of you?

If so, who are you lashing out at?