I agree with 'rilla. It's all about growing some balls. I used to play this way, and would lose constantly. But once I grew a pair, and started playing with smart aggression, I raise EVERYTIME with AK, AQ preflop, and then bet the flop strong whether you hit it or not. You'll stop losing money and make a bundle. For example last night I had AQ, raised it 6xBB, got a caller. Flop came down K93 rainbow. I bet 8xBB, he calls. From observing his play all game, I'm almost certain he had a K. Turn comes 5. I bet 10xBB, he calls. I'm starting to get nervous here, but I'm really making him question his kicker. River comes 8, I bet 14xBB, he folds. I take down a nice size pot, with nothing but Ace high. Once I learned to be aggressive, the money started rolling in.