After a night of getting raked over coals by sets and feeling like I am not getting the same full value when I have a set, I wanted to get opinions on set play.

Can you post some setups for stacking villians if you have a set? How do you bet to determine if you are facing a set? I know it will always depend on your opponent, stack size, position, etc., but any scenarios will be appreciated. Also, if there was a good thread on this in the past, it would save time.

I know this question is motiviated by short term variance/frustration on my part, but I might as well use it to review and improve my play.