Like they have all said you need to start your betting off better from the get go. If you had started preflop with (3.5-4xbb +1 per limper) .10 or .12 and then made pot sized bets on each street you would get all the money in the middle easily without making an over bet. Sit down and do the math useing different opening bets and you'll be amazed what a difference it makes in building the pot. Which is what you want to do when you hit your sets. By trying to just shove it in or making a X times the pot bet after a goofy min bet your scaring off the money.