Where are you playing? What stakes? What is your bankroll? Are you posting hand histories? Reading books?

It's tough, and variance is something everyone has to suffer through. But the bitter truth is, if there is no upswing, it's not variance, it's bad play.

I've had bad play before. I've had variance before, it's very difficult to distinguish between the 2.

Step 1, deposit money into online poker. Make sure you have enough money to learn the game / survive the variance.
Step 2, play online poker
Step 3, post hand histories of big wins / losses and tough decisions. This way we can see what you did, how your could have done it different and you can tweak your game and fix any holes you may have.