It's hard to really assess getting stacked on hands so explicitly.

However for your examples, set on set is very rare - rare enough that it's not really worth worrying about. SF vs SF is also very rare and I probably go broke in a nutflush vs SF situation.

However, boat vs boat (ie, fukk house) can sometimes be dropped moderately easily depending on the situation. If you have the low end of a double board pair or if your boat is counterfeited it may be possible to get away from it.

In other cases, hand strength is really relative. The strength of a TJQ-high flush depends on the opp and the way the pot played out - raised pot? Does opp like to limp suited aces? etc etc etc.

have sets cracked by straights or flushes - again depends on how the hand played out. Was there a 2-flush flop where you let the flush draw for cheap?

When playing trips (ie, you hit the pair on the board), the strength of the trip matters. If you've limped with A3s looking to hit a nutflush draw and you've flopped trip A, you have to proceed with reasonable caution. You likely have the best hand but if you're up against another A, you're outkicked.

OTOH if you have a BB special of T3o and flop brings paired 3s, it's more likely that you're goot.

Sometimes, and again depending on your opp, TPTK can be goot. It's not a hand that I'd be comfortable playing for stacks with, but against the right opp I would do it.

For instance, a few days ago at 25NL, I flopped a K on AKo which I had raised preflop. My flop bet was flat called by an opp who I knew would pretty much call down bets with mid pair or better, and pretty much couldn't drop TP.

I pushed on the turn which was an overbet (a bit more than $15 into a $10 pot) - not something I would generally do with TPTK.