if you're going to fold a SPADE 3, might as well c/f flop
he's barreling a flush draw and a picked up flush draw, T9

there's no way a 3 is in his range unless he just made quads

hand 2 I just call
if he really wants to get it in, I'll just let him have it
if he bets kind of like a bitch I'll call him down